From the moment two people get engaged to the day they say I Do, there are a lot of milestones that typically require gift-giving. And if you’re a close friend or family member of one such couple, you might be wondering what on earth you should get the happy couple and when. Well, fear not. We’ve got a guide on the moments you should consider giving them a gift and what gesture is appropriate at each moment.

Engagement gifts

Starting off this new and exciting stage of a couple’s relationship, engagement is a key moment to send them a gift. This is a milestone in the relationship that is about congratulating them and sending your wishes of happiness. Depending on how much you are looking to spend will alter the type of engagement gift you give them. If you’re looking for something more affordable, Something small but personalized is a lovely idea. A customizable candle or a star chart of the night sky on the date they got engaged is a lovely idea. If you have a bigger budget, you could contribute to their wedding or send them an experience voucher.

Stag or hen party gift

Giving your friends a gift at their hen or stag party isn’t one of the most common practices, but often friends feel it’s a nice gesture as you head off to celebrate together. Something small, personal, and sometimes humorous is a good way to go. A hangover kit, Mr & Mrs personalized game, or a fun outfit will always go down as a treat and show the soon-to-be-married friend you have put some thought into your gift. If you’re feeling a bit more generous, you could plan the party and foot the bill, whether that’s renting a private function room or taking everyone on a whirlwind weekend in Europe. The world really is your oyster – just make sure you find out what the bride or groom wants for their celebrations first.

Wedding gift

The most well-known of them all, the wedding gift is the one present you are most likely to buy. A lot of couples will create a wedding gift registry, which actually makes your job a lot easier. All you have to do is pick an item on the list that is within your budget, and it means the couple is receiving something they actually want and need. In the case that your friends don’t use a registry, it’s up to you to come up with something useful and original. You could go down the route of contributing to the honeymoon or an aspect of the wedding, such as the cake or the entertainment. If your budget is unlikely to stretch that far, a personalized gift is, again, a great option. Opt for something a bit more unique like a cozy blanket with their names and wedding date embroidered, or perhaps an illustration of their wedding venue with their wedding details added.